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The Grass is always greener ( in short) or The Grass is always greener on the other side is a psychological syndrome.The base of the “grass is greener syndrome” is the idea that there is always something better that we are missing. So rather than experiencing stability, security, and satisfaction in the present environment, the feeling is there is more and better elsewhere, and anything less than ideal won’t do. Whether it’s with relationships, careers, or where you live, there is always one foot out the door.The two main problem with this are fantasy and fear. The fear comes from several possibilities, including fear of being trapped in commitment, fear of boredom, fear of loss of individuality, and fear of oppression.Along with these fears comes the issue of compromise. In people who fear commitment, comprising certain desires, needs, and values for the sake of the unity can feel like oppressive sacrifice. When this happens, the perception is that there is something else out there t...

The Supportive theory of Psychotherapy concentrates on the fact that any mental patient can be treated if the person starts to talk and start to express their feelings.The first step of this therapy is known as "Ventilation" in which the patient is let to express the feeling.Which boost the self esteem of the person and then it helps to build hope.In this manner the person feel relax in expressing the feelings.But when the person going through depression or mental trauma and the person is not allowed to talk or express then it's the time the person will burst and can become violent.Most of the people who keep quiet at that time will become violent and dangerous. Now look at the statistics by US Drone Strike Statistics,according to the New America Foundation(As of 25 December 2013). I want you to look at the civilians and unknown column.The statistics shows that 286 civilians are killed in drone attacks and 274 unknown people were killed in drone attacks.It has been ...

"The Intelligent will not die hungry unless the fool is alive"  What has happened to the world? Why they always follow a particular trend of the world? Why nobody wants to be a "Voice" and everybody is trying to be an "Echo"? Many of these questions make my Blood pressure to increase day by day.I felt that this is the problem of my country or my nation but as I am not suffering from Myopia ,I look around the world and got the same result, everybody is suffering from this. Like in my Country every month is fixed for a particular trend and who is earning from them? The one who they feel their enemies.Like the electricians and China earned a lot when in recent months people were following a trend to decorate their streets and houses...I am talking generally because I noticed and I can bet that after few more years it will be compulsory for everyone to decorate the house and street otherwise they will be considered the person who Hate more then Love. ...

150 Years ago it was a time when labours were needed for the parks and river along the Mississippian river that's why the officials went to Africa.In African woods they had dungeons , in which mostly there are three rooms for the prisoners or slaves.In one room there were man , in one there were women and in other one there were children.The people were caught just like the elephants are caught with the help of trap , then they are were kept there for months and years.The children cries but the parents were not  able to do any thing , the women were picked for Luxury but the husbands were not able to do anything, the e and man were beaten up brutly but the wife and mother were not able to say a single word.Like this way they are kept and then they ask them to do the work and at last they agreed and do the work which was wanted from them and they are loaded in the ship and transported to the Mississippian river.This is the psychology of Slavery that keep them badly , just allo...

People are always right when they say that “Few minutes with a wise and honest person can give you more lessons than hours of books”. Truly you will get more motivation from honest people and they can show you the way to live in life and also live in people’s mind after death. There has always been a great debate in Pakistan that which education system we have to follow and moreover there is another debate of private and government education institutions. In Pakistan approximately all people will feel that the private institutes are better than the government schools or colleges but again I have a different theory. According to me the private institutes has the main object to make money and also I feel the civilization has to be done by the government, no other sector can do that. But one thing is right that right now the government schools are not working as they should be but instead of adopting another system why we don’t try to fix the existing system??? A Primary School in Pa...

Everybody in this world defines "Love" in different words.For Poet it is the person on which he writes poem,for travellers it is the destination, for sunflower it is the sun , for river it's the sea , for Obama it is the war , for me it is the peace , for mother it is her child and so on.But in all the cases some words are common so I define the word in that manner.Love is all about understanding, giving , caring , respecting a person without any bad intention or financial benefit.I love if we see our love in pain , we feel the same pain.We cry when we see them crying or sometimes just by thinking them in trouble.We fight with the person who fight with our love , we like the things that are related to that person.Everybody shows the love in their manner, some show the respect, some show the care , some just follow, some by praying and some show by the support. There was a person from we can learn what the real love is about.He cried for us, lived the whole life prayin...

Who is scoring with distinction and who is getting the jobs???? I scored 88 in NTS test , no male candidate has scored that in Test in whole Sindh and only one female scored more than that. NTS merit list visible on their website Some candidates despite having 66 marks are getting the job and who is scoring 88 still not deserve to be a government teacher. This one picture showing the candidates who got the job in my Union council.It is clearly visible that these candidates scored less than me but still got the job while the RSU(Reform support Unit) officer was very keen saying that Merit will win. Go on alif bay pe yakeen...Go on.