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The Psychology Of The Slaves

150 Years ago it was a time when labours were needed for the parks and river along the Mississippian river that's why the officials went to Africa.In African woods they had dungeons , in which mostly there are three rooms for the prisoners or slaves.In one room there were man , in one there were women and in other one there were children.The people were caught just like the elephants are caught with the help of trap , then they are were kept there for months and years.The children cries but the parents were not  able to do any thing , the women were picked for Luxury but the husbands were not able to do anything, the e and man were beaten up brutly but the wife and mother were not able to say a single word.Like this way they are kept and then they ask them to do the work and at last they agreed and do the work which was wanted from them and they are loaded in the ship and transported to the Mississippian river.This is the psychology of Slavery that keep them badly , just allo...

Twenty Minutes with a Primary Teacher

People are always right when they say that “Few minutes with a wise and honest person can give you more lessons than hours of books”. Truly you will get more motivation from honest people and they can show you the way to live in life and also live in people’s mind after death. There has always been a great debate in Pakistan that which education system we have to follow and moreover there is another debate of private and government education institutions. In Pakistan approximately all people will feel that the private institutes are better than the government schools or colleges but again I have a different theory. According to me the private institutes has the main object to make money and also I feel the civilization has to be done by the government, no other sector can do that. But one thing is right that right now the government schools are not working as they should be but instead of adopting another system why we don’t try to fix the existing system??? A Primary School in Pa...

Love Is All About...

Everybody in this world defines "Love" in different words.For Poet it is the person on which he writes poem,for travellers it is the destination, for sunflower it is the sun , for river it's the sea , for Obama it is the war , for me it is the peace , for mother it is her child and so on.But in all the cases some words are common so I define the word in that manner.Love is all about understanding, giving , caring , respecting a person without any bad intention or financial benefit.I love if we see our love in pain , we feel the same pain.We cry when we see them crying or sometimes just by thinking them in trouble.We fight with the person who fight with our love , we like the things that are related to that person.Everybody shows the love in their manner, some show the respect, some show the care , some just follow, some by praying and some show by the support. There was a person from we can learn what the real love is about.He cried for us, lived the whole life prayin...

Till Now No Merit in Pakistan...

Who is scoring with distinction and who is getting the jobs???? I scored 88 in NTS test , no male candidate has scored that in Test in whole Sindh and only one female scored more than that. NTS merit list visible on their website Some candidates despite having 66 marks are getting the job and who is scoring 88 still not deserve to be a government teacher. This one picture showing the candidates who got the job in my Union council.It is clearly visible that these candidates scored less than me but still got the job while the RSU(Reform support Unit) officer was very keen saying that Merit will win. Go on alif bay pe yakeen...Go on.

Reactance : Doing the Opposite

We have seen that children often do the exact opposite of what they are ask to do.The wife is often heard saying to the husband, from the first day of marriage "Why you always disagree with me? Why you always do the exact opposite of my wish ? This is psychology of human being that sometimes they do the exact opposite of what they were ask to do.Another way we can get this by saying that people often to the same thing which they were not allowed to do.This is because of "Reactance" , it is human behaviour when they see that somebody is restricted them or somebody is snatching their freedom, so people do the exact opposite.In reactance people normally does the wrong thing, like children do the wrong thing when they dis obey their elders.I see that normally the reactance is bad for the individual or the group committing the reactance, If we see that it is good for us then we don't have to go opposite. Lets read what The great leader , Most brave person said o n the ...

Pakistan: In Search of Heroes

It is very common to hear that the children are not willing to learn and are not serious for the studies.As I see that my own brother is not very serious about his studies, he plays Cricket more than the studies.It is very easy to blame all the comforts given to the children nowadays but my theory is little bit different.When I study this case psychological, I came to a good reason behind that.Children or teen follow the marks of the person whom they see famous , respectable and successful.In today's society who is respectable? Cricketer, Actor ,the one who does the morning show, Big businessman , Singer and the list goes on, have you ever heard a person in Pakistan who is famous for doing studies or famous due to courage to speak truth or a brave person? 99% will reply in negative, It is a bitter truth. When I was growing up, I have many role models for me or What many people says "Heroes".When I was young I just wanted to be in Army or Air force and wanted to lay dow...

The Loss Of Soul In Education

It has been a great debate over the last few years and before that also, that technology has serve the humanity or it looses the charm from the humanity.For example, we observe that the old music or songs seems to be more soulful and the recent songs looses their charm in very short period of time.Why is that so? Some say that because of many musical albums people forgets the song very soon, some say that this is not good music or voice, some say people want freshness but as always I have a different theory.I think that due to the use of digital music instead of playing the instrument together, songs looses the beauty and soul that is why we say the old is gold or say them that they are evergreen songs.What I want to say is that use of technology helps us in many ways but due to it's over usage everything seems to be meaning less and sweet less. The same applies in education also , due to the introduction of technology the humanity has built themselves in many waves but in a la...